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Yeah, this post will be a little confuse because this is the summary of what happened in year 2013....
So yeah, this is a competition a joined with my bandmates, Yeang Whxi, Arthxr, Joe Yxe, ErnXe, and me..... Surprisingly we won a plate for this competition which is audience award. It might be just a small thing for other people but it is meaningfull for us because there are alot of memories for us to remember for this competition. We practiced together, We argued ideas and more..... Ya, so sad all the members lost already, hahaha some of them changed Uni....
Erm ya, this is kitties, lol their mother born them inside the apartment where I rented in Nilai, they are quite nice because they didt pee or shit anywhere, they stay for half year and i left them outside once they can walk because I am not able to raise them up due to financial problems haha, Luckily most of them had been adopted by people who love them. I hope they will be fine?
Their mother came again last month zzz She pregnant again hahaha but She didt born at my apartment again.... Hope she is fine.
Erm, This is the during Chinese new Year, ya.. this Chinese New year is very very special for me.. because there is someone who important for me celebrate with me..... Sorry due to privacy concern, i am not able to state who is she..... But ya, I only can post this because she is not in this photo....
And this is my cousin and uncle aunties
This is a photo when i get Missile, is a sickness, erm my whole body went red and it was damn itchy, I remembered that month, wow it was so suffer, but luckily someone take care of me.... but she is gone now.... I really... erm haiz, nothing, but really suffer for this ill.... sometime cold some times hot .
Oh ya!1 I remember== the nurse cant took my blood out, i remember the nurse give me an injection more than 5 times== lol, they were praying while they gave me injection... I was like... GODＢＬＥＳＳＭＥ ｈａｈａｈａ
Thanks to this ill, i thin alot haha because i was not allow to eat alot of foods. IN conclusion i only can eat porridge that without
putting any extra indrigient.
Ya this is my latest Pet in year 2013, tangerine gecko. Erm, nothing much about her( female), I named her as " Pain " due to some reasons. Ya this pet is a nice pet and i strongly recommend, it is not scary at all even most of the people afraid of it.
I love her beautiful skin <3,<3
Ya, this is Ah Kxn, and Ah KiXt, the fellow with middle finger was so funny that day, we went to an event organized by Inti students, hallowen night , it was a event that we walked through haunted house, something like that, and that fellow scare like hell.
He told us he is afraid of ghost but I didt expect he is not afraid, but he is extremely afraid, he hugged us all the time and his tear almost come out from his eye. Ya, I cant fully describe but that moment was so epic.
Ya , this is a cake, very obviously, and it made by Someone.. I cant mention her name, but ya thanks to her, quite surprise, I hope I will have a chance to eat it again....... I wish to... I miss her.... Ya meaningful birthday..... There are more photos but I cant upload due to privacy concern.
Ya this two photos are the photo capture during Christmas, thanks to all of them... They cheer me up, This girl besides me,lol this one== I only can say I want her remember me hahaha, cause she is going to become rich felllow soon, anyway thanks to her too because she taught me alot about life, and relationship. Ya, she is just long lost friend.....
From her story, i learnt that, we should look more deeeper and deeper before we make a judgement on certain things.... Respect her
Ya thanks to this two girls too, they help me, they accompany me when I drop into hell....... They are really nice person... I can give you their facebook if you all want hahaha
Let me conclude the things happened in year 2013, this is a year that full of hapiness and sadness, ya, I broke up with my girlfriend. This year, most of the time, I spent on her, and I cant post alll the photo and memory due to her privacy concern, and yup, I cried and alot of things happened since she broke up with me. I learnt alot.. Sometimes, I feel human or maybe me is funny, we learnt fast through pain........ I store most of the memory into one box, I hope one day I can open it with her......
This relationship is nice for me no matter what happened or what others said.... A lot of people asked me one question, how many relationship do u have before.... I will answer one....... Why? Yes, I used to be a playboy( online dating) but thanks to her, I learnt what is Love..... U can read my previous post for more information on what I think about LOVE.....
So after I broke up, I met quite a lot of friends, I mean the friends who support me, cheering me, stabbing me.... I choose to be silent and smile... A lot of people said I changed, no, I change just a little, not enough .. I need become better and better and better..... I want her to see me again, one day, I really hope.... But I dont think it will happen, what I can do is, hope she will find someone better than me even I dont wish it will happend........
Most of the thing that happened in year 2013, is about her... so I cant talk mchabout it....
Yeah before end of this post, this is my cover on a mandarin song, hope you will like it^.^
Ya, it was a fun and happy Christmas and I wish to remember the person who spend their time with me, my friends and family. Before 25th Dec 2013 comes, I decided to go to Portuguese village where locate in Malacca because there are the place most if the people will choose to countdown the coming Christmas especially for Gen Y. Thanks to my friend, that invite me to join together if not I am going to spend my time at home hahaha. It is funny because I go with a ' long time friend' who i guess we have damn long time did not contact with each other and I met my secondary friends at Portuguese too. I strongly recommend you all visit Portuguese village where locate in malacca during Christmas because there will be alot of decoration for most of the house at Portuguese, and a lot people will celebrate Christmas there too, but remember bring a cap if you want to make sure your hair never get messy because there will be a big "war" , the people at there will spray you even they don't know you, or your friend will spray you like you if they met you. Here are some photos that show the Portuguese, but only few hahaha...
PORTUGUESE VIEW This is the photo to show who I met, the singlet boy with weird face is the best brother I ever have, and he his the only best friend I always mentioned in previous post. And most of the people in this photo were my secondary friends, for the girls is my friend's friend, and the girl beside me is the friend that I mentioned just now, the long time friend, she named herself as roti losing if you want to search her in Facebook. And the one who take camera Is josh, and the rest are, rayxn, Nigxl, RonoXs, Vincxnt, ... And the face with most dumb style is me== thanks to my best bro, Andrew wee, I though he is going to support me to spray people but he ordered this whole gang to sprayed at me when I saw them.... I was like....epic fail hahahaha but anyway it is as fun^.^.
While waiting my friends to meet, me and the roti kosong had taken some photos too because we reached damn early zzz, we reached around 9pm in order to avoid traffic jam and the event only get high around 11-12pm, and thanks to her cheers me up when I was not happy, she faced the same problem I faced before, we have some same though on certain things ...
Lol, I know what you all thinking of, hahahaha anyway just photo, we are too boring of waiting my friends, she taught me something based on her experienced too, she will become a succesful lady boss too soon, who want get rich must know her hahaha.....
Yes, I did, but it was a past tense because I learnt that HOME is the best place for me. Who will adopt you when you are in danger? Who will try their best to help you when you are in trouble? Who will be your side when you really need help? Who are the people who willing to help you even you scold them for million times?.... Yes your parents....
I dont know why, And I dont know whether I am the only one or most of the people are in the same case with me. I started to know the value of family after I past through some hardships.... Is kind of funny because every hardships you faced will affect you become more mature. I guess all of us have reached rebel stage and you will never know if you are in the rebel stage because you will think whatever you are doing is correct when you are in the rebel stage. You will start to fight with your parents, you against them , but REBEL is not a bad stage and it depends how deep you went through. It is a good stage if you know how to return from Rebel stage because you will learnt alot alot alot.... On another hand, it will be your fatal stage if you never know how to return from Rebel stage.
But, there are something that will never change from those two situations, your parents. No matter what happen, your parents forever are you parents, it is a truth and fact, you will not able to change it forever. And they will always helping you and support you no matter which situation you go through, because they love you. I strongly agree that, parents are the thing that we should appreciate the most because i learnt.....
Try to think, who take care you all the time? How old are you now? Who are the people who raise you up??? Try to appreciate and think twice before you blame your parents that they didt give you what you want because they might already try their best to give you whatever they have, you might not able to see what they faced because they will never tell you what they faced.. You know why? Because they want you to be happy, they dont want you to worry about them. Actually, they didt request much from you, just be a good person, spend more time with them, that already more than enough for them. Dont ever leave them.. because you will never found another mother or father anymmore....
Last advice, try to think what you did when you are still a baby before you angry what they did..... because you did the same thing before but never throw you away^.^ Mom... Dad... If you read my blog, I wish to tell you, I love you... And sorry because I am not the type of person that know how to show my appreciate to you all.... but I hope whatever I did, you will understand..^.^
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Once before, I saw a rubbish on the road and I picked it up throw to rubbish bin... My friends ask me:" why you want to waste your energy and time to throw that rubbish? It is not yours!""The world will become cleaner and cleaner if every of us do the same thing as what I did, Maybe someone will did it when I did it... it is an invisible communication or transaction of information skill" answered by me." "no one cares"replied my friend.
I am not a hero or god...But I believe that my action will influenced the people surrounding me somedays, maybe their minded will not change the the first time they saw, maybe they will start to do what I do after the 2th,3rd or maybe the 10th time. If the invisible communication continued, I believe human will did what I did somedays.
Actually, there are more things that we can changed just by our indirect "sharing" skills such as our happiness. Do you believe that your laugh and happiness can bring happiness to others? Do you ever met this situation before? You will laugh even you dont know what your friend is laughing, but you still feel it is funny and happy?? Or you will yawn when you saw one of your friend yawned， and the person beside you will start and yawn too when you yawned. Why??? Because we are sharing what we did indirectly.
So my friends, try and do good thing everyday, maybe your attitude will not change a person at that moment, but you might able to change them someday..... I heard someone told me before, everyone will start and eat shit if the Television everyday publish a eating shit advertisement. We human will receive every single message we had heard, saw even we choose to ignore, it will appear somedays even you dont wish to believe except you have a good personnel.
Try and do good everyday, such as pick up the rubbish on the road, lend your hand for the people who need help, clean the toilet after use, and more.......
This is the machine that I will go for it everytime after school, I will spend RM0.50(if not mistaken) to go and buy an "EGG" in order to get special gift... Haha I remember the first time my egg drop into the drain when I just turn the button of the machine... So epic hahaha , and the drain was too deep for me at that rate, at the stall's uncle dont want help me to pick up! So bad== hate him~~~ Joking hahha
Power ranger! Haha I guess most of the Gen Y will watch power ranger before this instead of the modern hero nowadays such as Ben10 and more.... Until now I still prefer power ranger( old one not the new generation power ranger) >.< They all are my idol during my childhood, and I remember i always take my ruler as a sword and play with others( imagine myself as power ranger) hahahaha so nice memory^.^
Eraser is a common item for me during my primary school because i remember i got more than 50 pieces, i think more than that also, I remember I use my Snorlax cartoon erazer to beat everyone haha.... I remember the teacher always take away our eraser and scold us that we are wasting money and resources that buying erazer just for fun.... But we are not taking it as fun, cause we take it as BET, the winner can take the loser one XD
Gameboy, erm... I only play this version before.. Without color, but it is enough for me because this was like my treasure during that time because this is the only video game device i have... But nowadays people use their mobile phone to play every game in Gameboy, so sad that mobile phone had replace a lot of thing that I do when I was young.. Time flies....
Lantern, I remember every MoonCake festival, Me and my cousins will carry one lantern and walk around, I dont know why, but I know it was fun that time... Nowadays, people wont do that, some of them choose to use the electric lantern that have song..... Modern centuries hahaha .. I remember mine lantern is a tweety bird and half of it had burned due to my careless hahaaha....
Yoyo， erm I dont remember this much but I remember It is a hot item .... but I not really good in playinng this so I dun want talk about it hahaha...
Marble~~~ Yeah, I collect alot also, I love the color, I remember I have one black+silver color marble which is my favourite.... I show off always with that during my childhood... but now i lost them hahaa...
Mario, haha this one i guess alot of people play before too... I remember I was trying my best to reach the end of the game everytime, but my mom always stop me of playing it when I almost reach the final stage... And I remember I try to purposely hit the monster because I love to hear the sound when He is dead hahahaha.....
How many time we have been trick by this??? hahaha parents will ask me dont cry, buy me sweet, sleep early buy u a sweet... haaha so many^.^>.< miss it.... but dislike to eat nowadays
There are some unknown memory in my mind, I not sure what it is, but I know there are some memory that I cant remember, it is quite ambiguous, arbitrary .... haiz just something that I have a feeling on it..I also dont know how to explain haha
I dont know wether I am the only one who did this before? I love fire, and I take my book and burn it before... At the end, my mom scold me like hell hahaha
I remember I have 4 of this..... I spoiled in in 3 months, this is a present my Father bought from combodia..... But the sadest thing is there are no competitor for me because I am the only who have this among my cousins
Pokemon Card, I used to spend my pocket money on this== I remember I stop eating lunch just because to buy this stupid card.... But, all of this make my childhood to be meaningful and fun
Hahaha, I remember I have this when I am studying in kindergarden, and my parents still keep the hair after I cut, I have the shortest one because I cut it myself when the chewing gum stick on my hair..... hahaha but I hate to play chasing game when I have this hairstyle because they will pull my hair...... But I am KUNGFU master when i was in kindergarden^.^
Nowadays, we have been using Facebook alot. Did you ever read back or view back the thing that you posted before? I saw a post i posted before, I wrote that I am new KELVIN in the end of 2012. At the end, I just realize I am still who am I before this.....
How about you my friends?? Open your FACEBOOK, go to your profile and scroll in downward...
While you are scrolling your Facebook profile, you will realize what you had done all this times,years...
It might be something of your past.... It might be something that you dont want to remember... BUT please remember it WAS a thing that you wish to remember because that WAS the reason you posted in Facebook。Time flies, people changed, did you changed???
It is good for changing but remember whatever you had done from the past, because it is a good habit of remembering your past either it is good or bad, it is worth to remember because that is your life, that is who you are..... While you are remember the unhappy things, try to remember the happy things that had happen behind the story of your unhappy things.. Why I recommend my friends to review their past through FACEBOOK? As I mentioned above, because it WAS the thing you wish to remember before the unhappy thing happened.......
Dont think about it, do it now! Open your facebook now...
1.) Write a journal at least once a week.
Why?? There are some advantages when we are writing journal.
-Self enrichment
We will try and recall what we do recently, at the same time, we will introspection for what we had done. We can know what we are doing recently, are we wasting our time or we did something useful? If yes, you will have something to write on your journal.
-Enhancement of your language.
While you are writing your journal, your language will improve day by day.
-Brainstorming
When you have the habit of writing a journal everyday, you will have one day which you will have brainstorming mode because you will try to think something special or interesting to write and share to your reader. At the same time, your brain practices everyday.
-Sharing though
Different people have different though, we can able to share our though to more people if you willing to share your journal to public.
2.)Exercise at least once a week.
First, you will have a healthy life if you exercise constantly. At the same time, you will build your own confident if you have a good healthy body, your confident will increase more if you have a good body shape. Many people who are fat start to become a different person after they keep fit because their confident had increase which lead them to success.
3.)Set a goal for yourself
Everything come from an idea or an objective, without an objective you will easily get lost in your life
Try to take out a piece of paper and list out 10 short term dreams and 10 long term dreams. Write it on paper not type it in your laptop because the effect is more effective if you use your own hands to write. With a goals, you will realize your life is more meaningful than before. 4.)Do some reading
There are alot of thing we might not able to learn from book but there are also alot of though we can learn through book. From the book, we can learnt and avoid doing the same mistake by the previous people or the mistake done by the characters in the book Sometimes, the story of the book might help you to solve some of your problems.
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Are you happy??? Try and ask yourself this question...... Are you happy???
If yes, are you sure? or you are just pretend happy? or you just want to put some make up of your unhappiness with your happy?
If no, why you are not happy? are you a greedy person that you never satisfy or appreciate what you have?do you know how to appreciate?
Nowadays, Love, Friendship, Family are the common problems that caused human unhappy. At the same time, how many people try to cover up their unhappiness with happiness???
I decided to write this post because I wish I can help to settle the people who faced the problem i stated ust now because i know a lot of people around me face these problems. And I wish they know is time to let it go.
What is the thing should you let it goes? ....the tiny stone beside your stone. You might be thinking why should you let go the tiny stone beside your stone but not your stone....
The reason I said let the tiny stone goes because you have your own privilege to choose whether to keep or throw the stone.
So what is the stone and the tiny stone???
Tiny stone= your stress,
stone= the thing that you feel it is important which affect alot in your life.
We can choose to throw away the stone but we must think some way to throw away the tiny stone we have in order to make our life easier and nicer. There are several alternatives for you to choose,
1, Throw it to the sea (friends)
2.Throw it to the tree(family)
3.Keep it to a bottle(yourself)
Why sea=friends?Tree=family?Bottle=yourself?
Sea
-because you might have a ton of friends and you can choose to share your stress or problems with them in order to delegate your problem and stress
Tree
-because family members are limited,... it same as the tree because your family members passed away one by one like the tree......They have their lifetimes
Bottle
-Because the amount you keep your problem and stress into yourself is limited too, there are a limit for you to keep llike a bottle.... You can pour the water to the bottle if it already full.....It will break if you trying to overload filling
Yes, It is LIMITED, so please share your problems,your unhapiness or the thing that make you feel uncomfortable to your friend or parents. You can choose to keep it yourslef but there is a limit for yourself, you will make yourself become berserk if you keep your things yourself always because you will not have the feeling of REALLY HAPPY . Remember, there are Tree and Sea when you hit by stone, It is not mean that you should forget it but it is a way to release your stress or unhappiness. In another word, it is just a activity to give yourself a freedom
Think about it, are you really happy when you are happy?? or you are just trying to pretend you are happy in order to cover the thing u dont wish to remember or recall.......
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I hope some of you know, I am not able to accept anyone right now, I am really to use such rude word to reject you... At the same time, I guess the people who concern about me will have some reading on my blog and I hope you will read this post until the end.
I guess if you guys concern about me, you will know what stage and what kind of situation I met now and I know you all care for me. Yes, I did replied you all but it is not mean that I got feeling, you all just caring me , not love..... I really cant do anything but reject... If you read my previous post, I told you all LOVE is PERMANENT.... YES, PERMENANT..... I cant take you guys as a replacement.. I know you will say you dont mind to become the replacement, but really sorry, I dont want any people around me met the most painful thing in this word, LOVE PAIN..... And I am sure you are not love me, just LIKE....
The only thing I can say to the people who trying to do anything to me
" If you want to LOVE me, You need to hunt me in my own DARKNESS SIDE; Remeber you will get HURT before you found me, you still need to OPEN the chain that locked my hear even you FOUND me, BUT even you success did all this mission, Remember, the scar made by the chain will never LOST, it is PERMANENT'
What will happen??? Can you fixed it after you break it? No you never, even you fixed, it still wont become 100%same with the original form.
As you can see this plate is broken, how you going to fixed it to original form?
Yes, this story tell us that not to hurt people because there will be a permenant scar that will not lost forever once it is hurted.
But why? I mean did anyone think before the story behind this story?
Who drop the plate? Why he wants to drop the plate?
First, we must know how to plate made, the plate origin form is sand( I guess) so who made a plate? Who made a tiny sand to become a plate??? Yes, there will be a person who made it, but why the people want to break it??? Do you think he purposely? He wants to do so?...... or there are some REASON?......... You imagine when you drop a plate, what will happen? The plate will break and the broken pieces of the plate might hurts you, who wish to hurt themself??? No one, there are some reason people want to do so or accidently.
So it is same with our life, we might accidently hurt others, and did we wish to do?? WE must know something, sometimes we might become the victim( the person who get hurts which like the paltes) but we might not know there are some hidden story of why the person hurt you. Yes, it might have some people that purposely want to hurt you but NOT EVERYONE, especially the person who CARE,LOVE you....
My friends, think twice before you hurt people, think twice before people hurt you, most of the time, there are some reasons on certain thing happened.....
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How many people in a relationship before? What is puppy love? What is true love?
Everyone will have different kind of feeling and all of us wish to have a permanent love in our life.... But are you READY for it?
From what I heard so far, i heard some of my friends share their story about their relationship. I am the full observers for some relationship of my friends which I look at them since they are friend , and become couple and have conflict and break up.....
Most of the people choose to hate their EX when they break up. I also dont know whether it is correct decision or wrong decision because I am not the one who faced what they had faced..
But, my viewpoint is different since I have a really true love relationship, and i am sure it is a true love relationship. 100% true love.
Yes, I did doubt myself too, whether should I hate her? But I know I cant, some of the people say i am idiot, but i dont think so because I know i love her... What is love? I not sure, and I dont know how to describe it... but I know, love is permanent, no matter what happen love is permanent, you will still love the person you love if you love him/her before....
as the above photo showed, "you will never stop loving someone, it is either you never did or you always will"
I strongly agree because I cant hate her even i tried to force myself to........ So this is my definition of love.... Love is permanent
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Let go back to the recent thing that just happen to me... This is the story that about my first true love relationship..... Actually this is the topic I do not wish to talk the most... Let go straight to the broken stage of this relationship..... Yup, broken stage, she broke up with me because I am not a good boy for her.... The most berserk stage is on the first week, my mind was crazy...... I even not sure whether what am I thinking that week, my mind full of question marks..... How do I pass through all those day?? My answer is Sleep+sleep+sleep.... I will sleep and sleep and sleep... I had no choice because this is the only way to let me not to think anything..... But it is not a easy thing to avoid.... Do you know? When you love a person... the person will be everywhere, any time... even in your dreams...... I dream she came back to me.... I dreamed she left me and I shout her name.... That was crazy weeks....I also dont know how to describe that week because it was the most horrible week i ever have..... I dont know who to talk to, I dont know what to do... At the end, I cried badly and I messaged with my mom..... My mom was surprised because I never talk to her about my personal life before. Before this, I will try to be tough even when I met challenges or any hardships because I dont wish my parents will worry about me. I prefer to act as a rebel child in front my parents because i do not know how to show my caring to the person i care. I remember my parents bring me to Cameron Highland that following week. My parents do not know what happen but they know something happen on me because I am silent for the whole trip, I eat a little.... I cant smile or laught, i dont talk....... Before this, I will at least wear a MASK in front of my parents even if i am sad but I dont know why I cant even wear a fucking mask on my face that following weeks, i guess is month.... I cried alot of times in the toilet while i bath because i dont want my parents know about it.... Is weird, because i felt she is around when I went to Cameron highland because I remembered before 2~1 weeks she broke up with me, she went to Cameron Highland too..... Hahaha, actually I though all this illusion will only happen in drama but now i understand the feeling..... My parents know I am acting tough and they sent message to comfort me too which caused me cried again.... I feel guilty, really guilty because I make them worried. After that weeks, I forced myself to do things, try to make myself busy in order to not to think about her, but it does not work, I will remember every single thing about her no matter what I do, when I eat, when i watch television, when I do assignment, I will also remember her if i saw any little that can related to me and her..... really little thing..... haiz.... A lot of my friends asked me what happen on me because they read through my face, i dont know why... Maybe the main reason is because i never have a unhappy face in front of them before, i tried to smile at them talk as usual but they told me i am different.Until now, at least i can wear a mask on my face already...... From the day she broke up with me, I met alot of things, but I choose to be silent in order to avoid misunderstanding. Some people scold me, some people hate me, some people look down me, some people fuck me, some people comfort me , some people guess the story themself because I didt tell them anything when they asked, but I will tell all of you now, the reason is because I not good enough..... My friends asked me to leave the world.... Yes I can leave, but i am not willing to...... I am not acting as a hero or infatuation but there are some reasons you guys will never what a Love is. The reason I highlight the a is because one of the reader told me that i should not use a infront of love. BUt, why I use? because A love mean 1 love..... Love=1 likes=infinity as i mentioned before.... If you truly love a person, it will inside your heart forever, if you take he/she as an enemy after u break up, it is not love..... I do not hate her, I wish i can protect her from far..... just because a simple term... I love her..... Guys..... Appreciate your partner~ I wish you guys have a good relationship^^ (Please dont ask me further question about this) Thanks.... I will not talk about this anymore
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Tell me, what is your perception toward prostitute? Mostly, people will have some prejudgement for the people who work as prostitute. But for me, I will not think so. Why? I do not think so but it is not mean that I agree for what they do. The MOST important thing we must know in our life is, DO NOT JUDGE OTHERS IF WE NEVER PASS THROUGH WHAT THEY HAD PASSED THROUGH. Before you complain or judge a prostitute, did you ever think why you judge them as a bad person? Why? Let me give you several answers, the main factor people will judge something before they study it is based on:
1. Friend influence
They only listen to what he/her friends said to them but they never really think about it
2.Society influence
Once most of the people disagree for a certain things, the thing will become a wrong action, once most of the people agree for a certain things, the thing will become right action EVEN IT IS A WRONG ACTION.
Prostitute is a job too, they are human too. They have the right to receive respect from anyone . They are just doing a thing that not much people willing to do. Yes, they might have sex with others, but why having sex is a sin? Human did have desire, different people have different kind of though, feeling, attitude, we should not expect everyone actions. attitude to be same with us. Maybe this is one of his/her hobby? Everyone does their own hobby. Some people might love to smoke, some people might love to play games, some people might love to study........ Why cant they love to sex? I know it sounds wrong but why cant? They do what they like, at least they work what they like. Sometimes, I feel we human is living inside a invisible cage. We live in a cage that we must do what we had learnt. We did not been force to do what we had learn, but we had been shaped to do what we had learnt. At the beginning, we might have our own dream, own though, but how many people had become what other's expect them to become??
We should think before we make any judgement on everything, we must have out own thought.Why we need to expel our own though and follow other's though?? Why? Is their though is the best?? Is their though is correct? If correct, why it is correct? Did you ever think that before???? In this post, i take prostitute as an example.... Did you spend your money and time on smoke? How many people dislike the smoker smokes? Did you spend your money in your game? How many think that the people who spend money in game is idiot? Did you spend money for your shirt? How many people think that the people who spend money on shirt is a waste??? What I am trying to bring out in this post is, every people have different habit and attitude. A gamer might spend their money on game but not shirt, a fashion guy might spend their money on shirt but not game, a smoker might spend their money on smoke but not game. It is depends on who you are.
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Love is a mystery thing. Who can define a love? A person who never fall in love have no right to define it because you will never know the true meaning of Love. Mostly, we will went through "like" before we going to "love", but who knows how to differentiate likes and love? Nowadays, a lot of people in relationship, but did they really love each other??? Many people will in relationship because they feel the "someone" might able to help him/her at that moment, or maybe in the correct timing he/her had came out in front of he/her at the moment when he/her needs someone to talk. I guess for the people who have in true love relationship before will pass through several stages of love
1. sweet stage
This is the first stage of love which both of the parties might very active to meet each other, most of the time, they will not angry whatever their partner did. They will try to show their best part before they in a relationship.
2.Fighting Stage
This is the second stage of love which both of the parties might have conflicts with each other because of ideas not same, the bad habit shows since time prove everything. But, they still will take care of each other.
3.Ice stage
This is the third stage of love which both parties start to feel anything of their partner did is annoying and disturbing which like how teenagers nowadays treats their parents. They started to not appreciate each other because they take the caring as a MUST because they already use to it the caring or loving given by their partner
After the third stages, they will become complicated stage because it will decide whether the relationship continue or end......
My friends, I am not a successful person in relationship.... But, my friends, please appreciate what you have now, if you are in a relationship, appreciate him/her because you will regret someday ..... Love is miracle, if you love a person, you will willing to do anything for him/her but make sure you show your changing obviously. Many of my friends asked me one question
" should I break with my bf? Should I break with my gf?"
The first question I will ask them back is, why? Some of them said that because their friends asked him/her to do so. Some of them said that they found a better one. Some of them said they feel they have no feeling to each other already. Some of them say distance problem.... Hey my friends, if you really love the person, you will never want to break up with him/her, appreciate him/her. Yes, you might be found a better one, but how you can make sure he is better??? You may start to feel no feeling, but did ever remember what you all passed through together??? If you say distance, so how if next time he/she needs to work oversea after you married? Love can be easy and it depends how you look at it. Please ready before you in a relationship, dont in a relationship because you want to in relationship. Please give each other trust when you are in a relationship. We must know, every steps he/she did have their own reasons, why dont you give them chance to change? Why dont you give them chance to explain? Share your problems to your partner because it will improve the relationship between you and her or you and him....
In the conclusion, for my opinion, love is forever, like is temporally. I will not agree the people who said they have totally forget their EX , for me, I love ONCE.... I like alots..... But just once... i love.... and I didt do well and we break up....... I dont think she will totally lost in my heart but at least there is a space for her forever.... Even we break up, i still hope she will be fine...This is how I define love, love is forever no matter what happens.... I dont wish any of my friends will hurt because of love any more so please appreciate your partner now, grab his/her hand now and give him/her a hug... Love can be simple^^ good luck my friend....
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This photo is meaningful. It is easy to understand and most of the people is facing the same problem. Nowadays, it is known as a modern technology centuries, but it is a good signal or bad signal? Literally, it is a good sign because it shows humans are getting smarter and smarter, human creates a lot of technology which help them to simplify their job. Human creates mobile phone which allow them to communicate with each other around the world which we cant do before this. Human creates aeroplane which allow human "FLY" on the sky. Human creates cars which help them to reach a destination with high speed. Today I will focus on the most HOTTEST technology( i guess), Mobile phone.
I guess 80% of the people that above 10 years old has their own mobile phone nowadays. It is a good things? For my opinion, it is depends how to user use the phone. The first thing I would like to focus on is
"Phone Controlled Human or Human Controlled Phone?"
From the photo above, we can see that the drawer wants to bring out something to the society. In the photo, it shows that the mobile phone is linked with our body, it is like the phone had connected with our nerve which look like it becomes an organ of our human body. What does it means??? I guess the drawer is trying to bring out that we spend too much time on our mobile phone. Last week, my friend invited me for dinner and I accepted, While we were chit chatting with each other, I saw something that can prove that this photo is true... A gang of friends, 5 people (if not mistaken) sit on the same were playing with their phone.... I was like LOL. What for they come out if they just want to play with their mobile phone??? After 30minutes, it become 6 person but the result still the same. I was thinking, why??? We can play with our mobile phone at home since there is a thing call internet which allow people to play game together....
At that moment, it reminds me alot of thing that I did before, we play with erasers battle, paper plane, crystal ball, pokemon card and more which most of the teenager had replaced it with mobile phone. Sometimes, i feel the technology is too modern which caused alot of people addicted to the technology. Why is addicted? It is like you taking a drug , at the beginning we have a phone , at that moment we controlled phone but once we rely too much on the technology it will revert the origin situation.... It becomes phone controlled us. Alot of people will say no wifi no life, no phone no life, but how the people survive without wifi before this?????
My friends, look around you, stop looking down always to your phone, stop pressing your phone when you are free, look around you because you might finds some new things that are more interesting than your mobile phone apps. Stop let the phone control because we are human! We are their creator!
Did you ever feel yourself are the unlucky one? Did you ever feel yourself useless? Did you ever feel to do something stupid in order to get someone attention? Did you ever think......... who are you???
Ya, as I said before, everyone have different background and everyone have their own life story. Did all of the life of the main character goes well every time???
Let take one of the story I heard recently, (Buggyface) just a nickname because i will not share their real name out. She is a girl that are happy always in front of others, if you ask any of her friends about her, they will only say she is a very cheerful person but who knows the story behind her? Me, Kelvin Teo knows. I dont know it is real anot but I felt I have sixth sense which always allow me to read other people past and that is the reason why most of my friend share their secret with me. Most of the time I can tell them their real side which known as their hidden side. Ok let go back to our main character Buggyface, she chat with me in facebook recently and I asked her some questions. She was surprised because she never expected anyone able to explore the hidden part inside her heart especially me because we are friend but we not really talk to each other much before. From what she told me, actually there are some reasons she choose to be happy in front of others.
"why I need to being miserable in her whole life since it is past, there are still better thing to look forward in our life"
This is what she told me and I agreed what she said. Yes, she has some bad memories before but she told me that she thanks to the past which caused become stronger and stronger. Obviously, people get stronger and stronger through each hardship they had met.
In our life, there are different kind of hardships in our life such as , love, relationship, family, homework, work, friends, and more. Yes, meet different kind of hardships is like the process of growing stage, it is necessaries to met even you do not wish to. We, from a little sperm become a bean size and become a baby, child,adult, old guy... we are not able to avoid or stop it if we dont want it happened, it still happened no matter how.... It is same with the hardships we MUST met, but it is different with our growing stage, we can try to reduce our hardships. We might not able to decide our background or lifestyle, but we can choose to be what we want in our future through our perseverance, our action, our responsible. How??? Do whatever you can in order to improve yourself always..... Life might be sucks, but we must know we might be lucky one with others? Nothing is perfect, everything you have need scarify .... sometimes we need to think positive when we met hardship because each of the hardship is the guideline for our success.....
From what I heard since I was young until now,19years old, I had heard a lot of stories through my friends before.... All of the stories is based on the individual experiences. For example, I met a friend before, he is a tough guy and everyone around him know he is a tough guy but non of the people expect that actually he is the person who need care. One day , he told me he need someone to talk, and he told me some of his story and at the end he told me that he wants to suicide. I was surprise. He said that no one believe him, look at what he did no matter how good he did, no one respect him and more..... After that, I asked him one question and this question changed his minded....
" Did you trust yourself?"
All of us expect other's to trust us, to believe us, , but before you want other's to respect,to believe, to trust you, did you ever believe yourself? How can other's people trust or believe you if yourself dont even believe yourself? We need to have a strong perseverance and confident when we mentioned about our point of views or our ideas. If you give up your ideas your dream just because of some stabs from others, that is not a good ideas and dream because you, yourself don't even believe it is good. We must know something in our life
"we born to be satisfy ourself , not others"
Yes, we born to satisfy ourself but not to be selfish. Different people will have different though in depends on their culture, background, experiences.. There is a word in Mandarin "一种米养百种人“ it means that one bean will produce hundred types of different people. We should not expect everyone will agreed our idea because no matter how good you are, there are someone who not satisfy your ideas. We should not ignore them but thanks them because they are the people who make us become stronger and stronger, they are the person who motivate us to the higher levels, BUT if you give up everything after their ambushing talking, that is not you anymore because you will only follow behind them.
I met a good people before this, I love music and I love to sing very much, but I always lost my confident everytime when someone tease me because me myself dont even know wether my voice is nice or not nice.... One day, got a uncle tells me, sing out your voice and your style, dont be afraid, what are you afraid of?? I dont know what to answer him.... And then he ask me " do you like your voice?" I said " ok ok lor" then he scolded me " HOW OTHERS GOING TO LOVE YOUR VOICE IF YOU DONT EVEN LOVE YOUR VOICE?!"
Yes my friend, as you can see, nowadays in your school, your university, your workplace, how many people will speak out their ideas? Most of the people will choose to be silent and follow the higher level people ideas even they know there are some better ideas from them because they are afraid of getting tease or laught by others. STAND UP and SHARE your ideas and view of points my friends! Let the world know your dream! your Ideas! dont afraid being laugh because at least you have your own AIM in your life even it is a ridiculous dream... At least you believe yourself ..... KEEPＭＯＶＩＮＧ！！！
It is not about voice or love or dream.... No matter what we do, we must believe ourself, because we must know we are special thats why our ideas is different with others
As everyone know, lie is not a good habit and we had been taught not to tell lies... But why we still lie??? Is lie to others is a bad habit or good habit?
Actually it can be good or bad.....
Did you ever did this before, you lied to a person you love, you care, you wish to protect them.... Actually everyone did lie and sometimes we lied in order to protect something we love we care.... But it is a good choices to lie others in order to protect something? Hahaha it is a very good question because I asked myself thousand times...... Sometimes, it is good to lie in order to avoid misunderstanding, but the thing will become more worst than the actual problem if the people finds our the truth behind the lies. Mostly,you will become a jerk, a liar no matter how good are you before he/she realize what is the truth. At the end, your kindness will become a sin ..... Yes I said like this because I always create a lie in order to cover some unwanted conflict or misunderstand or in order to protect something I care... There are some bad ending and good ending at the end of the lies. Some lies motivated my friends, some lies make my friends happy, some lies make my friends hate me, some lies make my lover hate me and leave me........ But who cares what happened to you at the end???
" To create a lie is easy, To maintain a lie is difficult"
IF you want to lie someone, please make sure they wont find out the truth at the end of the day because it will occur unwanted problems. From my personal experience, sometimes lie is good but it is dangerous as a time bomb because it might explode any time any seconds.
Sometimes, we should exchange our position with others when we are trying to angry someone because when you change your sight with him, maybe you will understand why he/she did that... maybe they are helping you even they know they know it is not a good choice. Create a lie is easy, but who can maintain it??? Mostly, the person who try to create and maintain a lie must be a tough people because it is not easy to maintain it... Sometimes, we might become a bad person with a lie in order to protect someone... But for me, it is worth if we can create a lie to protect someone.... Sometimes, you might need to sacrify everything you have with you lies...... including the person you love....
Create A lie?? Think twice.... A lie might can make a people happy but dont do it if you do not have a strong perseverance... Your duty is to be a backstage helper if you did that......
Ya thanks to this two girls too, they help me, they accompany me when I drop into hell....... They are really nice person... I can give you their facebook if you all want hahaha
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