如果你说你快乐，那你是真的快乐吗？ 还是你的快乐是伪装的？ 还是你的快乐是为了掩饰？
如果你说你不快乐，为什么你不快乐？ 你知足吗？你珍惜吗？
如果你说你不知道，那你应该是在最危险的地带了因为你连自己的状况都不知道。
很多人为了爱情，友情，亲情而伤心，但是 有多少人在为爱情，友情，亲情而伪装开心？
我写下这篇文章，是为了让在这个困境的朋友，我的读者们知道其实是时候放下了。
放下什么？ 放下你心里头那块石头 旁的那一下小石头。 你们再想为什么是小石头吧？
因为你有权利选择丢弃或保留你的大石头，那所谓的小石头是什么？？？ ”压力“
我们能选择保留自己觉得重要的东西（大石头），但是那些困扰（小石头） 一定要想办法丢弃， 你能选择丢进大海（朋友）， 你能选择丢向大树（亲戚），你也能收进罐子（心里），
为什么我说大海=朋友？大树=亲戚？罐子=心里？
大海
-因为朋友你有很多，就像大海那样，如果你有本事，您能让全世界人成为你的朋友
大树
-因为亲情是有限的，就像大树一样一直慢慢的死亡，枯萎。。。
罐子
-因为罐子所装的分量是有限的
对，有限的，所以当你遇到困扰，烦恼，麻烦，什么都好， 你能选择自己承担，
对，自己承担显示坚强，但是承担也是有限的。。。
你认为你自己真的足够坚强吗？你认为每天把自己的事情掩饰很开心吗？？
所以，我这篇文章所要说的是当你们想要自己承担的时候，记得世界里有大海和大树，也就是你的朋友和家人。。。 当然你可以选择自己收在心里，但是有时候小石头丢出来是好事。。丢了不是要你忘记，而是发泄。。。。
当你觉得你自己快乐的时候，记得想想自己是否真的活在快乐？ 还是你是为了逃避一些东西而掩饰你的不快乐或你不想想到的不快乐？
Are you happy??? Try and ask yourself this question...... Are you happy???
If yes, are you sure? or you are just pretend happy? or you just want to put some make up of your unhappiness with your happy?
If no, why you are not happy? are you a greedy person that you never satisfy or appreciate what you have?do you know how to appreciate?
Nowadays, Love, Friendship, Family are the common problems that caused human unhappy. At the same time, how many people try to cover up their unhappiness with happiness???
I decided to write this post because I wish I can help to settle the people who faced the problem i stated ust now because i know a lot of people around me face these problems. And I wish they know is time to let it go.
What is the thing should you let it goes? ....the tiny stone beside your stone. You might be thinking why should you let go the tiny stone beside your stone but not your stone....
The reason I said let the tiny stone goes because you have your own privilege to choose whether to keep or throw the stone.
So what is the stone and the tiny stone???
Tiny stone= your stress,
stone= the thing that you feel it is important which affect alot in your life.
We can choose to throw away the stone but we must think some way to throw away the tiny stone we have in order to make our life easier and nicer. There are several alternatives for you to choose,
1, Throw it to the sea (friends)
2.Throw it to the tree(family)
3.Keep it to a bottle(yourself)
Why sea=friends?Tree=family?Bottle=yourself?
Sea
-because you might have a ton of friends and you can choose to share your stress or problems with them in order to delegate your problem and stress
Tree
-because family members are limited,... it same as the tree because your family members passed away one by one like the tree......They have their lifetimes
Bottle
-Because the amount you keep your problem and stress into yourself is limited too, there are a limit for you to keep llike a bottle.... You can pour the water to the bottle if it already full.....It will break if you trying to overload filling
Yes, It is LIMITED, so please share your problems,your unhapiness or the thing that make you feel uncomfortable to your friend or parents. You can choose to keep it yourslef but there is a limit for yourself, you will make yourself become berserk if you keep your things yourself always because you will not have the feeling of REALLY HAPPY . Remember, there are Tree and Sea when you hit by stone, It is not mean that you should forget it but it is a way to release your stress or unhappiness. In another word, it is just a activity to give yourself a freedom
Think about it, are you really happy when you are happy?? or you are just trying to pretend you are happy in order to cover the thing u dont wish to remember or recall.......
From :Kelvinmelody
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