things that happen in 2013....

Yeah, this post will be a little confuse because this is the summary of what happened in year 2013....

 So yeah, this is a competition a joined with my bandmates, Yeang Whxi, Arthxr, Joe Yxe, ErnXe, and me..... Surprisingly we won a plate for this competition which is audience award. It might be just a small thing for other people but it is meaningfull for us because there are alot of memories for us to remember for this competition. We practiced together, We argued ideas and more..... Ya, so sad all the members lost already, hahaha some of them changed Uni....

       Erm ya, this is kitties, lol their mother born them inside the apartment where I rented in Nilai, they are quite nice because they didt pee or shit anywhere, they stay for half year and i left them outside once they can walk because I am not able to raise them up due to financial problems haha, Luckily most of them had been adopted by people who love them. I hope they will be fine?

Their mother came again last month zzz She pregnant again hahaha but She didt born at my apartment again.... Hope she is fine.

Erm, This is the during Chinese new Year, ya.. this Chinese New year is very very special for me.. because there is someone who important for me celebrate with me..... Sorry due to privacy concern, i am not able to state who is she..... But ya, I only can post this because she is not in this photo....

And this is my cousin and uncle aunties

 This is a photo when i get Missile, is a sickness, erm my whole body went red and it was damn itchy, I remembered that month, wow it was so suffer, but luckily someone take care of me.... but she is gone now.... I really... erm haiz, nothing, but really suffer for this ill.... sometime cold some times hot .

Oh ya!1 I remember== the nurse cant took my blood out, i remember the nurse give me an injection more than 5 times== lol, they were praying while they gave me injection... I was like... GODＢＬＥＳＳＭＥ　ｈａｈａｈａ

Thanks to this ill, i thin alot haha because i was not allow to eat alot of foods. IN conclusion i only can eat porridge  that without
putting any extra indrigient.

Ya this is my latest Pet in year 2013, tangerine gecko. Erm, nothing much about her( female), I named her as " Pain " due to some reasons. Ya this pet is a nice pet and i strongly recommend, it is not scary at all even most of the people afraid of it.

I love her beautiful skin <3,<3

Ya, this is Ah Kxn, and Ah KiXt, the fellow with middle finger was so funny that day, we went to an event organized by Inti students, hallowen night , it was a event that we walked through haunted house, something like that, and that fellow scare like hell.
He told us he is afraid of ghost but I didt expect he is not afraid, but he is extremely afraid, he hugged us all the time and his tear almost come out from his eye. Ya, I cant fully describe but that moment was so epic.

 Ya , this is a cake, very obviously, and it made by Someone.. I cant mention her name, but ya thanks to her, quite surprise, I hope I will have a chance to eat it again....... I wish to... I miss her.... Ya meaningful birthday..... There are more photos but I cant upload due to privacy concern.

Ya this two photos are the photo capture during Christmas, thanks to all of them... They cheer me up, This girl besides me,lol this one== I only can say I want her remember me hahaha, cause she is going to become rich felllow soon, anyway thanks to her too because she taught me alot about life, and relationship. Ya, she is just long lost friend.....
From her story, i learnt that, we should look more deeeper and deeper before we make a judgement on certain things.... Respect her

Ya thanks to this two girls too, they help me, they accompany me when I drop into hell....... They are really nice person... I can give you their facebook if you all want hahaha

Let me conclude the things happened in year 2013, this is a year that full of hapiness and sadness, ya, I broke up with my girlfriend. This year, most of the time, I spent on her, and I cant post alll the photo and memory due to her privacy concern, and yup, I cried and alot of things happened since she broke up with me. I learnt alot.. Sometimes, I feel human or maybe me is funny, we learnt fast through pain........ I store most of the memory into one box, I hope one day I can open it with her......

This relationship is nice for me no matter what happened or what others said.... A lot of people asked me one question, how many relationship do u have before.... I will answer one....... Why? Yes, I used to be a playboy( online dating) but thanks to her, I learnt what is Love..... U can read my previous post for more information on what I think about LOVE.....

So after I broke up, I met quite a lot of friends, I mean the friends who support me, cheering me, stabbing me.... I choose to be silent and smile... A lot of people said I changed, no, I change just a little, not enough .. I need become better and better and better..... I want her to see me again, one day, I really hope.... But I dont think it will happen, what I can do is, hope she will find someone better than me even I dont wish it will happend........

Most of the thing that happened in year 2013, is about her... so I cant talk mchabout it....


Yeah before end of this post, this is my cover on a mandarin song, hope you will like it^.^

The things that happened during Christmas and before Christmas Part 1

     Ya, it was a fun and happy Christmas and I wish to remember the person who spend their time with me, my friends and family. Before 25th Dec 2013 comes, I decided to go to Portuguese village where locate in Malacca because there are the place most if the people will choose to countdown the coming Christmas especially for Gen Y. Thanks to my friend, that invite me to join together if not I am going to spend my time at home hahaha. It is funny because I go with a ' long time friend'  who i guess we have damn long time did not contact with each other and I met my secondary friends at Portuguese too. I strongly recommend you all visit Portuguese village where locate in malacca  during Christmas because there will be alot of decoration for most of the house at Portuguese, and a lot people will celebrate Christmas there too, but remember bring a cap if you want to make sure your hair never get messy because there will be a big "war" , the people at there will spray you even they don't know you, or your friend will spray you like you if they met you. Here are some photos that show the Portuguese, but only few hahaha...

  PORTUGUESE VIEW
     This is the photo to show who I met, the singlet boy with weird face is the best brother I ever have, and he his the only best friend I always mentioned in previous post. And most of the people in this photo were my secondary friends, for the girls is my friend's friend, and the girl beside me is the friend that I mentioned just now, the long time friend, she named herself as roti losing if you want to search her in Facebook. And the one who take camera Is josh, and the rest are, rayxn, Nigxl, RonoXs, Vincxnt, ... And the face with most dumb style is me== thanks to my best bro, Andrew wee, I  though he is going to support me to spray people  but he ordered this whole gang to sprayed at me  when I saw them.... I was like....epic fail hahahaha but anyway it is as fun^.^.

   While waiting my friends to meet, me and the roti kosong had taken some photos too because we reached damn early zzz, we reached around 9pm in order to avoid traffic jam and the event only get high around 11-12pm, and thanks to her cheers me up when I was not happy, she faced the same problem I faced before, we have some same though on certain things ...

 

 Lol, I know what you all thinking of, hahahaha anyway just photo, we are too boring of waiting my friends, she taught me something based on her experienced too, she will become a succesful lady boss too soon, who want get rich must know her hahaha.....

To Be Continue.....

The Price Of Family.

Did you ever hate your parents?

Did you ever angry on your parents?

Did  you feel your parents are annoying?

       Yes, I did, but it was a past tense because I learnt that HOME is the best place for me. Who will adopt you when you are in danger? Who will try their best to help you when you are in trouble? Who will be your side when you really need help? Who are the people who willing to help you even you scold them for million times?.... Yes your parents....

       I dont know why, And I dont know whether I am the only one or most of the people are in the same case with me. I started to know the value of family after I past through some hardships.... Is kind of funny because every hardships you faced will affect you become more mature. I guess all of us have reached rebel stage and you will never know if you are in the rebel stage because you will think whatever you are doing is correct when you are in the rebel stage. You will start to fight with your parents, you against them , but REBEL is not a bad stage and it depends how deep you went through. It is a good stage if you know how to return from Rebel stage because you will learnt alot alot alot.... On another hand, it will be your fatal stage if you never know how to return from Rebel stage. 

         But, there are something that will never change from those two situations, your parents. No matter what happen, your parents forever are you parents, it is a truth and fact, you will not able to change it forever. And they will always helping you and support you no matter which situation you go through, because they love you. I strongly agree that, parents are the thing that we should appreciate the most because i learnt.....

       Try to think, who take care you all the time? How old are you now? Who are the people who raise you up??? Try to appreciate and think twice before you blame your parents that they didt give you what you want because they  might already try their best to give you whatever they have, you might not able to see what they faced because they will never tell you what they faced.. You know why? Because they want you to be happy, they dont want you to worry about them. Actually, they didt request much from you, just be a good person, spend more time with them, that already more than enough for them. Dont ever leave them.. because you will never found another mother or father anymmore....

Last advice, try to think what you did when you are still a baby before you angry what they did..... because you did the same thing before but never throw you away^.^ Mom... Dad... If you read my blog, I wish to tell you, I love you... And sorry because I am not the type of person that know how to show my appreciate to you all.... but I hope whatever I did, you will understand..^.^

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The power of one to one(sharing)...

Once before, I saw a rubbish on the road and I picked it up throw to rubbish bin... My friends ask me:" why you want to waste your energy and time to throw that rubbish? It is not yours!" "The world will become cleaner and cleaner if every of us do the same thing as what I did, Maybe someone will did it when I did it... it is an invisible communication or transaction of information skill" answered by me." "no one cares"replied my friend. 

I am not a hero or god...But I believe that my action will influenced the people surrounding me somedays, maybe their minded will not change the the first time they saw, maybe they will start to do what I do after the 2th,3rd or maybe the 10th time. If the invisible communication continued, I believe human will did what I did somedays.

Actually, there are more things that we can changed just by our indirect "sharing" skills such as our happiness. Do you believe that your laugh and happiness can bring happiness to others? Do you ever met this situation before? You will laugh even you dont know what your friend is laughing, but you still feel it is funny and happy?? Or you will yawn when you saw one of your friend yawned， and the person beside you will start and yawn too when you yawned. Why??? Because we are sharing what we did indirectly.

So my friends, try and do good thing everyday, maybe your attitude will not change a person at that moment, but you might able to change them someday..... I heard someone told me before, everyone will start and eat shit if the Television everyday publish a eating shit advertisement. We human will receive every single message we had heard, saw even we choose to ignore, it will appear somedays even you dont wish to believe except you have a good personnel.

Try and do good everyday, such as pick up the rubbish on the road, lend your hand for the people who need help, clean the toilet after use, and more.......

My Memory of my childhood...童年时的记忆

 This is the machine that I will go for it everytime after school, I will spend RM0.50(if not mistaken) to go and buy an "EGG" in order to get special gift... Haha I remember the first time my egg drop into the drain when I just turn the button of the machine... So epic hahaha , and the drain was too deep for me at that rate, at the stall's uncle dont want help me to pick up! So bad== hate him~~~ Joking hahha

 Power ranger! Haha I guess most of the Gen Y will watch power ranger before this instead of the modern hero nowadays such as Ben10 and more.... Until now I still prefer power ranger( old one not the new generation power ranger) >.< They all are my idol during my childhood, and I remember i always take my ruler as a sword and play with others( imagine myself as power ranger) hahahaha so nice memory^.^

Eraser is a common item for me during my primary school because i remember i got more than 50 pieces, i think more than that also, I remember I use my Snorlax cartoon erazer to beat everyone haha.... I remember the teacher always take away our eraser and scold us that we are wasting money and resources that buying  erazer just for fun.... But we are not taking it as fun, cause we take it as BET, the winner can take the loser one XD

 Gameboy, erm... I only play this version before.. Without color, but it is enough for me because this was like my treasure during that time because this is the only video game device  i have... But nowadays people use their mobile phone to play every game in Gameboy, so sad that mobile phone had replace a lot of thing that I do when I was young.. Time flies....

Lantern, I remember every MoonCake festival, Me and my cousins will carry one lantern and walk around, I dont know why, but I know it was fun that time... Nowadays, people wont do that, some of them choose to use the electric lantern that have song..... Modern centuries hahaha .. I remember mine lantern is a tweety bird and half of it had burned due to my careless hahaaha....

 Yoyo， erm I dont remember this much but I remember It is a hot item .... but I not really good in playinng this so I dun want talk about it hahaha...

 Marble~~~ Yeah, I collect alot also, I love the color, I remember　I have one black+silver color marble which is my favourite.... I show off always with that during my childhood... but now i lost them hahaa...

Mario, haha this one i guess alot of people play before too... I remember I was trying my best to reach the end of the game everytime, but my mom always stop me of playing it when I almost reach the final stage... And I remember I try to purposely hit the monster because I love to hear the sound when He is dead hahahaha.....

How many time we have been trick by this??? hahaha parents will ask me dont cry, buy me sweet, sleep early buy u a sweet... haaha so many^.^>.< miss it.... but dislike to eat nowadays

 There are some unknown memory in my mind, I not sure what it is, but I know there are some memory that I cant remember, it is quite ambiguous, arbitrary .... haiz just something that I have a feeling on it..I also dont know how to explain haha

I dont know wether I am the only one who did this before? I love fire, and I take my book and burn it before... At the end, my mom scold me like hell hahaha

I remember I have 4 of this..... I spoiled in in 3 months, this is a present my Father bought from combodia..... But the sadest thing is there are no competitor for me because I am the only who have this among my cousins

Pokemon Card, I used to spend my pocket money on this== I remember I stop eating lunch just because to buy this stupid card.... But, all of this make my childhood to be meaningful and fun

Hahaha, I remember I have this when I am studying in kindergarden, and my parents still keep the hair after I cut, I have the shortest one because I cut it myself when the chewing gum stick on my hair..... hahaha but I hate to play chasing game when I have this hairstyle because they will pull my hair...... But I am KUNGFU master when i was in kindergarden^.^

Review yourself through Facebook. 通过facebook看清你自己

Nowadays, we have been using Facebook alot. Did you ever read back or view back the thing that you posted before?  I saw a post i posted before, I wrote that I am new KELVIN in the end of 2012. At the end, I just realize I am still who am I before this.....

How about you my friends?? Open your FACEBOOK, go to your profile and scroll in downward...
While you are scrolling your Facebook profile, you will realize what you had done all this times,years...
It might be something of your past.... It might be something that you dont want to remember... BUT please remember it WAS a thing that you wish to remember because that WAS the reason you posted in Facebook。Time flies, people changed, did you changed???

It is good for changing but remember whatever you had done from the past, because it is a good habit of remembering your past either it is good or bad, it is worth to remember because that is your life, that is who you are..... While you are remember the unhappy things, try to remember the happy things that had happen behind the story of your unhappy things.. Why I recommend my friends to review their past through FACEBOOK? As I mentioned above, because it WAS the thing you wish to remember before the unhappy thing happened.......

Dont think about it, do it now! Open your facebook now...

随着时代的进步，多数的人都应该拥有自己面子书帐号了。你们有没有想过看回去自己的过呢？我翻回去自己写过的东西，看到我在2012的最后一天写了一个status,说我在2013是个全新的自我，但是今天我回想了。。。我真的是全新的kelvin？也许今天是，但是之前呢。。。。2013年已经接近尾声了。。。

其实我会建议你们翻回去过去因为每一个人都拥有自己的facebook帐号，你们所放出来的东西都是你们想要记得的。。。当然也许有些东西已经变成你不想要回想的过去。。但是当你说你不想回想那个过去的时候，你是否有想过他至少也是你曾经想要记得一辈子的事情。。。也是你觉得开心的一个事情。。为什么我们人类永远都只会记得不好的？ 为什么没人会记得在不好的事情的背后存在的那一个美好的过去？难道那个美好的过去不是你的过去？
其实回归过去是一个很好的习惯因为我们会记得我们曾经的美好，也会从我们过去的错误中反省。。每一段过去都是形成现在的你所以过去是需要记得的。。。。没有那些过去，就没有今天的你

还等什么？马上开你的面子书，翻回你之前的记录看看你有什么发现！！哈哈哈

4 easy Ways To Improve Yourself

1.) Write a journal at least once a week.
Why?? There are some advantages when we are writing journal.
-Self enrichment
 We will try and recall what we do recently, at the same time, we will introspection for what we had done. We can know what we are doing recently, are we wasting our time or we did something useful? If yes, you will have something to write on your journal.
-Enhancement of your language.
While you are writing your journal, your language will improve day by day.
-Brainstorming
When you have the habit of writing a journal everyday, you will have one day which you will have brainstorming mode because you will try to think something special or interesting to write and share to your reader. At the same time, your brain practices everyday.
-Sharing though
Different people have different though, we can able to share our though to more people if you willing to share your journal to public.


2.)Exercise at least once a week.
First, you will have a healthy life if you exercise constantly. At the same time, you will build your own confident if you have a good healthy body, your confident will increase more if you have a good body shape. Many people who are fat start to become a different person after they keep fit because their confident had increase which lead them to success.

3.) Set a goal for yourself
Everything come from an idea or an objective, without an objective you will easily get lost in your life
Try to take out a piece of paper and list out 10 short term dreams and 10 long term dreams. Write it on paper not type it in your laptop because the effect is more effective if you use your own hands to write. With a goals, you will realize your life is more meaningful than before.

4.)Do some reading
There are alot of thing we might not able to learn from book but there are also alot of though we can learn through book. From the book, we can learnt and avoid doing the same mistake by the previous people or the mistake done by the characters in the book Sometimes, the story of the book might help you to solve some of  your problems.

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"你快乐吗？ Are you HAPPY?"

当我问这个问题的时候，请问回你们自己。。。你快乐吗？

如果你说你快乐，那你是真的快乐吗？ 还是你的快乐是伪装的？ 还是你的快乐是为了掩饰？

如果你说你不快乐，为什么你不快乐？ 你知足吗？你珍惜吗？

如果你说你不知道，那你应该是在最危险的地带了因为你连自己的状况都不知道。

很多人为了爱情，友情，亲情而伤心，但是 有多少人在为爱情，友情，亲情而伪装开心？

我写下这篇文章，是为了让在这个困境的朋友，我的读者们知道其实是时候放下了。

放下什么？ 放下你心里头那块石头 旁的那一下小石头。 你们再想为什么是小石头吧？

因为你有权利选择丢弃或保留你的大石头，那所谓的小石头是什么？？？  ”压力“

我们能选择保留自己觉得重要的东西（大石头），但是那些困扰（小石头） 一定要想办法丢弃， 你能选择丢进大海（朋友）， 你能选择丢向大树（亲戚），你也能收进罐子（心里），

为什么我说大海=朋友？大树=亲戚？罐子=心里？

大海

-因为朋友你有很多，就像大海那样，如果你有本事，您能让全世界人成为你的朋友

大树

-因为亲情是有限的，就像大树一样一直慢慢的死亡，枯萎。。。

罐子

-因为罐子所装的分量是有限的

对，有限的，所以当你遇到困扰，烦恼，麻烦，什么都好， 你能选择自己承担，

对，自己承担显示坚强，但是承担也是有限的。。。

你认为你自己真的足够坚强吗？你认为每天把自己的事情掩饰很开心吗？？

所以，我这篇文章所要说的是当你们想要自己承担的时候，记得世界里有大海和大树，也就是你的朋友和家人。。。 当然你可以选择自己收在心里，但是有时候小石头丢出来是好事。。丢了不是要你忘记，而是发泄。。。。

当你觉得你自己快乐的时候，记得想想自己是否真的活在快乐？ 还是你是为了逃避一些东西而掩饰你的不快乐或你不想想到的不快乐？ 

Are you happy??? Try and ask yourself this question...... Are you happy???

If yes, are you sure? or you are just pretend happy? or you just want to put some make up of your unhappiness with your happy?

If no, why you are not happy? are you a greedy person that you never satisfy or appreciate what you have?do you know how to appreciate?

Nowadays, Love, Friendship, Family are the common problems that caused human unhappy. At the same time, how many people try to cover up their unhappiness with happiness???

I decided to write this post because I wish I can help to settle the people who faced the problem i stated ust now because i know a lot of  people around me face these problems. And I wish they know is time to let it go.

What is the thing should you let it goes? ....the tiny stone beside your stone. You might be thinking why should you let go the tiny stone beside your stone but not  your stone....

The reason I said let the tiny stone goes because you have your own privilege to choose whether to keep or throw the stone. 

So what is the stone and the tiny stone??? 

Tiny stone= your stress, 

stone= the thing that you feel it is important which affect alot in your life.

We can choose to throw away the stone but we must think some way to throw away the tiny stone we have in order to make our life easier and nicer. There are several alternatives for you to choose, 

1, Throw it to the sea (friends)

2.Throw it to the tree(family)

3.Keep it to a bottle(yourself)

Why sea=friends?Tree=family?Bottle=yourself?

Sea

-because you might have a ton of friends and you can choose to share your stress or problems with them in order to delegate your problem and stress

Tree

-because family members are limited,... it same as the tree because your family members passed away one by one like the tree......They have their lifetimes

Bottle

-Because the amount you keep your problem and stress into yourself is limited too, there are a limit for you to keep llike a bottle.... You can pour the water to the bottle if it already full.....It will break if you trying to overload filling

Yes, It is LIMITED, so please share your problems,your unhapiness or the thing that make you feel uncomfortable to your friend or parents. You can choose to keep it yourslef but there is a limit for yourself, you will make yourself become berserk if you keep your things yourself always because you will not have the  feeling of REALLY HAPPY .  Remember, there are Tree and Sea when you hit by stone, It is not mean that you should forget it but it is a way to release your stress or unhappiness. In another word, it is just a activity to give yourself a freedom

Think about it, are you really happy when you are happy?? or you are just trying to pretend you are happy in order to cover the thing  u dont wish to remember or recall.......

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