Phone controlled Human or Human controlled Phone?

This photo is meaningful. It is easy to understand and most of the people is facing the same problem. Nowadays, it is known as a modern technology centuries, but it is a good signal or bad signal? Literally, it is a good sign because it shows humans are getting smarter and smarter, human creates a lot of technology which help them to simplify their job. Human creates mobile phone which allow them to communicate with each other around the world which we cant do before this. Human creates aeroplane which allow human "FLY" on the sky. Human creates cars which help them to reach a destination with high speed. Today I will focus on the most HOTTEST technology( i guess), Mobile phone.

I guess 80% of the people that above 10 years old has their own mobile phone nowadays. It is a good things? For my opinion, it is depends how to user use the phone. The first thing I would like to focus on is

"Phone Controlled Human or Human Controlled Phone?"

From the photo above, we can see that the drawer wants to bring out something to the society. In the photo, it shows that the mobile phone is linked with our body, it is like the phone had connected with our nerve which look like it becomes an organ of our human body. What does it means??? I guess the drawer is trying to bring out that we spend too much time on our mobile phone. Last week, my friend invited me for dinner and I accepted, While we were chit chatting with each other, I saw something that can prove that this photo is true... A gang of friends, 5 people (if not mistaken)  sit on the same were playing with their phone.... I was like LOL. What for they come out if they just want to play with their mobile phone??? After 30minutes, it become 6 person but the result still the same. I was thinking, why??? We can play with our mobile phone at home since there is a thing call internet which allow people to play game together.... 

At that moment, it reminds me alot of thing that I did before, we play with erasers battle, paper plane, crystal ball, pokemon card and more which most of the teenager had replaced it with mobile phone. Sometimes, i feel the technology is too modern which caused alot of people addicted to the technology. Why is addicted? It is like you taking a drug , at the beginning we have a phone , at that moment we controlled phone but once we rely too much on the technology it will revert the origin situation.... It becomes phone controlled us. Alot of people will say no wifi no life, no phone no life, but how the people survive without wifi before this?????

My friends, look around you, stop looking down always to your phone, stop pressing your phone when you are free, look around you because you might finds some new things that are more interesting than your mobile phone apps. Stop let the phone control because we are human! We are their creator!

Did you ever think you are the unlucky one??

       Did you ever feel yourself are the unlucky one? Did you ever feel yourself useless? Did you ever feel to do something stupid in order to get someone attention? Did you ever think......... who are you???

     Ya, as I said before, everyone have different background and everyone have their own life story. Did all of the life of the main character goes well every time???

    Let take one of the story I heard recently, (Buggyface) just a nickname because i will not share their real name out. She is a girl that are happy always in front of others, if you ask any of her friends about her, they will only say she is a very cheerful person but who knows the story behind her? Me, Kelvin Teo knows. I dont know it is real anot but I felt I have sixth sense which always allow me to read other people past and that is the reason why most of my friend share their secret with me. Most of the time I can tell them their real side which known as their hidden side. Ok let go back to our main character Buggyface, she chat with me in facebook recently and I asked her some questions. She was surprised because she never expected anyone able to explore the hidden part inside her heart especially me because we are friend but we not really talk to each other much before. From what she told me, actually there are some reasons she choose to be happy in front of others.

"why I need to being miserable in her whole life since it is past, there are still better thing to look forward in our life"

This is what she told me and I agreed what she said. Yes, she has some bad memories before but she told me that she thanks to the past which caused become stronger and stronger. Obviously, people get stronger and stronger through each hardship they had met.

     In our life, there are different kind of hardships in our life such as , love, relationship, family, homework, work, friends, and more. Yes, meet different kind of hardships is like the process of growing stage, it is necessaries to met even you do not wish to. We, from a little sperm become a bean size and become a baby, child,adult, old guy... we are not able to avoid or stop it if we dont want it happened, it still happened no matter how.... It is same with the hardships we MUST met, but it is different with our growing stage, we can try to reduce our hardships. We might not able to decide our background or lifestyle, but we can choose to be what we want in our future through our perseverance, our action, our responsible. How??? Do whatever you can in order to improve yourself always..... Life might be sucks, but we must know we might be lucky one with others? Nothing is perfect, everything you have need scarify .... sometimes we need to think positive when we met hardship because each of the hardship is the guideline for our success.....

Believe yourself

      From what I heard since I was young until now,19years old, I had heard a lot of stories through my friends before.... All of the stories is based on the individual experiences. For example, I met a friend before, he is a tough guy and everyone around him know he is a tough guy but non of the people expect that actually he is the person who need care. One day , he told me he need someone to talk, and he told me some of his story and at the end he told me that he wants to suicide. I was surprise. He said that no one believe him, look at what he did no matter how good he did, no one respect him and more..... After that, I asked him one question and this question changed his minded....

 " Did you trust yourself?"

    All of us expect other's to trust us, to believe us, , but before you want other's to respect,to believe, to trust you, did you ever believe yourself? How can other's people trust or believe you if yourself dont even believe yourself? We need to have a strong perseverance and confident when we mentioned about our point of views or our ideas. If you give up your ideas your dream just because of some stabs from others, that is not a good ideas and dream because you, yourself don't even believe it is good. We must know something in our life

"we born to be satisfy ourself , not others"
 
    Yes, we born to satisfy ourself but not to be selfish. Different people will have different though in depends on their culture, background, experiences.. There is a word in Mandarin "一种米养百种人“ it means that one bean will produce hundred types of different people. We should not expect everyone will agreed our idea because no matter how good you are, there are someone who not satisfy your ideas. We should not ignore them but thanks them because they are the people who make us become stronger and stronger, they are the person who motivate us to the higher levels, BUT if you give up everything after their ambushing talking, that is not you anymore because you will only follow behind them.

　　I met a good people before this, I love music and I love to sing very much, but I always lost my confident everytime when someone tease me because me myself dont even know wether my voice is nice or not nice.... One day, got a uncle tells me, sing out your voice and your style, dont be afraid, what are you afraid of?? I dont know what to answer him.... And then he ask me " do you like your voice?" I said " ok ok lor" then he scolded me " HOW OTHERS GOING TO LOVE YOUR VOICE IF YOU DONT EVEN LOVE YOUR VOICE?!"
 

   Yes my friend, as you can see, nowadays in your school, your university, your workplace, how many people will speak out their ideas? Most of the people will choose to be silent and follow the higher level people ideas even they know there are some better ideas from them because they are afraid of getting tease or laught by others. STAND UP and SHARE your ideas and view of points my friends! Let the world know your dream! your Ideas! dont afraid being laugh because at least you have your own AIM in your life even it is a ridiculous dream... At least you believe yourself ..... KEEPＭＯＶＩＮＧ！！！

    It is not about voice or love or dream.... No matter what we do, we must believe ourself, because we must know we are special thats why our ideas is different with others

Lie....

             As everyone know, lie is not a good habit and we had been taught not to tell lies... But why we still lie??? Is lie to others is a bad habit or good habit? 

Actually it can be good or bad.....

    Did you ever did this before, you lied to a person you love, you care, you wish to protect them.... Actually everyone did lie and sometimes we lied in order to protect something we love we care.... But it is a good choices to lie others in order to protect something? Hahaha it is a very good question because I asked myself thousand times...... Sometimes, it is good to lie in order to avoid misunderstanding, but the thing will become more worst than the actual problem if the people finds our the truth behind the lies. Mostly,you will become a jerk, a liar  no matter how good are you before he/she realize what is the truth. At the end, your kindness will become a sin ..... Yes I said like this because I always create a lie in order to cover some unwanted conflict or misunderstand or in order to protect something I care... There are some bad ending and good ending at the end of the lies. Some lies motivated my friends, some lies make my friends happy, some lies make my friends hate me, some lies make my lover hate me and leave me........ But who cares what happened to you at the end??? 

    " To create a lie is easy, To maintain a lie is difficult" 

IF you want to lie someone, please make sure they wont find out the truth at the end of the day because it will occur unwanted problems. From my personal experience, sometimes lie is good but it is dangerous as a time bomb because it might explode any time any seconds. 

    Sometimes, we should exchange our position with others when we are trying to angry someone because when you change your sight with him, maybe you will understand why he/she did that... maybe they are helping you even they know they know it is not a good choice. Create a lie is easy, but who can maintain it??? Mostly, the person who try to create and maintain a lie must be a tough people because it is not easy to maintain it... Sometimes, we might become a bad person with a lie in order to protect someone... But for me, it is worth if we can create a lie to protect someone.... Sometimes, you might need to sacrify everything you have with you lies...... including the person you love....

   Create  A lie?? Think twice.... A lie might can make a people happy but dont do it if you do not have a strong perseverance... Your duty is to be a backstage helper if you did that......

Friends....

Friend? Who is our friend? Are the friend with you now is your friend???

There are few types of friend with my theory:
1. Head Hunter friend:
This type of friend is a good head hunter because they know how to search for advantages. They will follow every orders that order by the people who has advantage for them. They will leave you once they search better advantages on other people.

2. Boomer's friend:
This type of friend is the person who good in talking nonsense. There are two types of boomer friend which are ambushing style and joker style. Ambushing style is the person who use their "knowledge" to attack people, mostly they will say themself have a lot of knowledge even they did not have. Joker style is they will talk nonsense but their nonsense is to cheers people. Mostly boomer have alot of friends but just friend not best friend.

3. Jakiro Friend:
This type of friend is known as dangerous friend. They will have different kind of talking style in front of different people. They might talking bad about your enemy in front of you but he/she might also talk bad about you in front your enemy. Mostly, this type of friend is good in making conflict and rumor among friend.

4.Backstage friend:
You should appreciate this type of friend if you know them because they might not talk or hang out with you everyday like the other friends you have but they will help you with their best try when you need help... Sometimes, they will help you indirectly without letting you know about it... Mostly, you will not realize them...

5. Book Friend:
This type of friends more concern about their study.

6. Pure friend:
The friend who dont know anything, you might need to bring him/her to view the world because they are still a clean paper.

7.Best friend
The friend who know who you are, believe you, help you when you need help. They will help you in the most proper way. Some of the "best friend" will help you but they might lead you to the wrong way..... so please clarify and know how to differentiate good best friend and bad best friend.

Actually, there are still alot of type of friend in this world, the most important we must know in our life is, different kind of background,cultures will create a different characteristic people.... We must learnt to appreciate and understand other if you have a true friend.... Appreciate every friend you have because human need friend to survive^^

Scratch and Win

Dear journal,

Today, my friend had been scammed. He was coming to INTI by KTM. The KTM was nearby MidValley. Suddenly, there was a young boy(mostly they look like gangster or bad boy )  tapped her shoulder and called him. After that, he asked my friend to go to his company to get a stock. My friend had followed them to their company and they brought my friend to bank to withdraw RM5000 to pay for the stock. He told my friend that he needs to bring the stock back to the Macdonal around Nilai to meet his(the dealer) friend. Then he brought my friend to a taxi and he paid for the taxi and asked the taxi bring my friend to the MAcdonal nearby Nilai. For some reason, my friend had just realized he had been scammed once he get out from taxi and he called us to help him immediately. When we called back the dealer and his friend, they will give alot of reasons because they won’t met you anymore. At the end, you wont get back your money. After that, I had asked several friends who met this kind of case before, and I realized that what the scammers said always the same. My friends please don’t hang out alone next time because their targets mostly were the person who is alone and if they find you, remember don’t look at their eyes because they might use something to make u feel dizzy. Here is the few common things.

1.       They will tell you that you had won a prize for some lucky draw. After that, they will ask you to go to their company to take the prizes.

2.       They will ask you to pay some deposit for the prizes.(Mostly you will just follow what they say because you will be dizzy)

3.       At the very beginning, they will ask you indirectly about the amount in your bank account, they will take as much as they can after they know.

4.       They will say they are some “big” company that nearby the area. For my friend case, they said they are from Pavillion,Midvalley and more. Mostly it will be the company that you had known.

5.       They will say they are doing promotion for their “big” company.

6.       They will ask where you want to go (cause they will sent you to the place after they scammed you)

From my friends, I had arrange the way the scammed

Step 1:

Mostly they will ask you to have a look for their promotion and they will show you the promotion from newspaper or a broacher.

 Example, if you met them around MidValley, they will say they are doing promotion for TimeSquare. Then they will tell you about the prizes. “JadeBed” was their “product” and it will be your “prize”.

Step2

You won a prize! They will ask you to open a sticker and you won a “prize”. (If you saw your friend won this prize, please call each other name because it will help your friends to wake up from the trick they had used previously).

Step3
They will thank you because they will say they are able to get commission for your prize as well. At the same time, their friends will come along also and they will congratulate you. They will continue acting with some tricks such as “ Hey , treat me a meal after you get your commission”

Step4

They will tell you the prize is not with them and they will bring you to their “office” to get the prize. Once you reached, they will ask you to draw again the “prize”. Mostly, you will get a “jadebed” .After you get your “prize”, they will started to do their “business”, they will ask you to pay for the government tax and more. At the same time, they will try to ask you indirectly about your bank account, at the end they will bring you to bank and get your money. After that, they will send you to a destination along with your “prize”. Other than that, they will tell you to go to the destination so there will be one buyer to buy your “prize”. But don’t waste your time and wait because you already get scammed.

For my personal suggestion, there are few ways to avoid this happen,

1.       Do NOT look at their eyes

2.       Do NOT entertain the people who are doing promotion around shopping mall especially when they say you won a prize.

3.       Try not to follow them to their office.

4.       Don’t ever go with them!

5.       Never tell them about amount of your bank!!! Never!!!

6.       Try don’t bring your saving account card along with you.(Mostly they will say you need to have at least some money to get different kind of prizes) Example, 1k for blablabla pakage, 2k for blablabla pakage. Then they will ask again how much you have)

7.       Last one, don’t always think you wont get in this trouble because you might be the victim oneday. ( My friend is a thrifty person but he still get scammed. We believed they use some smoke or trick to make you feel dizzy)
This will be your prize

REMEMBER DON’T BELIEVE WHEN SOMEONE SAY YOU WON A PRIZE. NEVER NEVER NEVER!

Describing a walk on a seashore in the evening

It was evening and I was walking at the seashore.I stood below a coconut tree and I turned myself  faced to the sea. The sky looked magnificent with the golden colour and the sea also became golden in colour.The sun  I able to see there were some small islands far away from me. There were few  seagulls were flying above the sea. The view attracted me and I walked myself near to the sea.The sand was smooth and soft. The waves hit my feet again and again, my feet stuck into the sand a little bit inside when the waves hit my feet. I closed my eye, i able to feel the wind blow toward my face and i able to hear the sound of the waves again and again.I heard the sound of seagulls and I felt they were calling me. I felt relax. I stepped back to the beach because my feet stuck a little too deep inside to the sand.When i turned back, I saw my footprints on the beach. I looked at my footprints when I walked back to the coconut tree, the footprints gone because of the waves. There was some rubbish on the beach and I kicked the coca-cola tin.