What life means?

A very simple question, what LIFE means?

Everyone who survive in this world are having their "LIFE" since the first day they had born. The moment we success compete with all the others competitor and become the first one who able to reach deep inside ovum, it is the time where our life start. Sounds like nonsense haha......
Yes, our life start once we born out which mean everyone have "life" but how  many people really know what LIFE means?

It is suppose to be peaceful all the way?
It is suppose to be sad all the way??
Your life is on your hand..............

So how to have a meaningful life? In order to have a meaningful life, it is a MUST for us to pass through all types of situation including sad, happy or not happy or anything else.......

The happy thing can be the moment you achieve your dream, can be the moment you be with your lover, can be the moment you get something you want, can be very simple as long you happy^^

The sad thing can be when  you lose a competition, when you saw your lover sad, can be the moment when you fail in your dream or more......

Life, is like a recycle, it is a MUST for us to pass through certain thing, such as dying, seperate and more....... No one born to be lonely forever and no one born to be with someone forever.....

Based on my own experienced, The best way to let yourself improve yourself effectively is by learning how to be lonely..... learn to be your own.... The moment you are able to handle lonely, you are GOD.  How many people learnt to be alone????  Not much , because being alone is very scary and very stressfull. Never afraid of lonely because lonely will make you become weaker and stupid.

In our life, we might met alot of hardships, it can be friendship, relationship, family, finance or more..... but we must know that every hardships we met is a test for us , it is a test that allow to test ourself whether we are able to handle the hardship, but it is not a reason for us to give up anything.....
We should take the hardships as our lesson and try to become better and better because we will become more mature in the future. Dnt be afraid of the hardship, stand up and face it. When a person cry, despair, after few times, it is ok to cry, but we must stand up after we cry, because crying is only a way to release your stress but not a way to help you solve your question or problems. Stand up after you cried and show your smile to others^^ be strong ( like what I did always is i will tell myself to be strong in front of mirror)

Life can be complicated also when we discuss about feeling such as all of those relationship because we human has feeling which might affect our decision, the decision might also affect which kind of hardships we or you will met. For example Love......

In conclusion, Life is beautiful, and complicated, it depends how you are going to pass to through it , the attitude that you use in your life will decide which kind of life you will have......

postive or negative??Ｄｅｃｉｄｅ　ｙｏｕｒｓｅｌｆ....

“think too much, a good thing or bad thing?

Think too much? are you a person who think too much always?

Did you imagine what will happen next before you make your move or decisions??

Did you ever feel worry how others look at you?

So, the tittle today is “think too much, a good thing or bad thing?"

Erm, I do not know whether it is a good thing or bad thing, it depends on how you apply on it.

But there are also pros and cons by think too much

Advantages

a. better decision

- when you think, we will try to imagine several situation and we will choose the best situation before we made the final decision, it helps us to make better decision cause it is a final choice through alot of expectation or imagination.

B-reduce unwanted conflicts

- it will reduce conflicts because we will not choose to do something if we think before we do, so it helps us to reduce the chances of having conflict 

Disadvantages

a. lost confident

- because when we think too much, worry too much, we will easy lose our confident on certain task such as, relationship, friendship and more.

b. never live peaceful 

-when we chose to worry this and that, our life wil never peaceful because we will busy thinking what will happen next, what others think of ourself, or more.

There are still alot of pros and cons for think too much.... but let's get back to the tittle, is it a good thing or a bad thing?

For me, there are no good or bad, it depends on how you apply this skill in your life, if you choose to think tooo much for everything single thing, i guess it is a bad thing because as above mentioned,your life will ful of stress. We need to learn to be CALM, try your best to stop thinking unnecessary thing. Sometimes, you expect or though that others will think so and so, but at the end you will realize that actually you are the only one in the whole "movie", You will feel yourself are the only person that act like a dumb in that movie. But human is a complicated creatures, some of the people still willing to choose to think a lot even they know they are an idiot, I dont know why, maybe they born to be like this? or maybe they are target for something? 

what yours?

By: KelvinMelody

Did you give remote control of yourself to the people around you?

Remote control ? Remote is a device that able to control a specify thing.

But, the remote control I want to discuss about in this post is an "INVINCIBLE REMOTE" 

We are human, all of us know about it, and we know our brain is our remote control that control us, our movement, thought , whatever you do, is because of your brain. But there is an INVISIBLE REMOTE will appears if you lack of trust on yourself.

How does the remote control will appear? Where will it appears?

It will be the people around you or it can be everyone.......

Do you ever feel sad because of a word or some criticize from others people?

Do you ever have this experienced? 

-At first, you feel very confident on your Idea or though, but it did not get well respond from others and you feel disappointed, and you start to believe them that your idea is wrong~

-Or did you ever give up your DREAM because everyone reject your dream?

-Or did you ever give up to be your own self because others feel your attitude or management style is wrong?

Why???? Because you already gave all those people the invisible remote control to control your though and action.

The main point that I want to share to all of you is about BELIEVING YOURSELF

No matter how good you become, you must know one lesson which there are still people will feel you are wrong. But what for you care about them? You are improving, and they are just some keyboard fighter or bullshit people. No matter who you are, there are people who likes you or dislikes you, no matter what you do, there are people who agree you or disagree you

Believe yourself, go straight to your dream and idea, dont give up your idea or thought, it might be reject by others at first, they will say you are freak because they never saw your WONDERFUL idea, they reject to become better. So what are you waiting for? Stand up, Look at mirror, tell yourself, 　

＂ｉ　ａｍ　ｔｈｅ　ｂｅｓｔ＂

FROM: KelvinMelody

对不起 "sorry"

你知道吗？ “对不起”  这三个简单的字， 可以改变很多事情的结果。

但是你说过吗？说过了几次？

很多时候，我们在路上被人撞， 你会怎么做？

A.骂人

B.瞪着他/她

C.用手搔搔被撞的地方

D,说一句对不起。

如果你是选择 D，说一句对不起，我会觉得你很有风度。

我也是选择D。其实，不管是谁对谁错都好，说一句对不起，很多事情可以改善。

例如，我记得有一次我在走街时，有一个很凶的男性同胞不小心撞了我, 他直接瞪着我（好像要打架的感觉），我说了一句对不起，他就和我微微笑回然后就没事情了。想象，如果我没说对不起反而悬着和他理论，是不是到最后也许我们会打架？或闹到很多事情？

其实简单的一句对不起不只是在这种情况下能用得到

比如，爱情，亲情，友情，事业

说一个对不起，能赢回很多情。

面子真的那么重要？有时候，我们争吵争取到了我们想要的东西。。到最后，你会发现一场空。。。忍一时风平浪静。。。。 微笑带过，对你自己也好，对他人也好。。。

平静的心情可以让你活得跟好，是一种普通人到不了的进阶。。。

三个字“对不起" 看似简单，但你愿意说嘛？

很多时候，我们也许会为了自己的利益，权威而解释，但也许对其他人来说是争吵

倒不如冷静，时间会证明一切。如果不要越描越黑，不如静一静继续做自己的东西。

如果外人相信你，不管你有没有解释它们都是相信你，

如果外人不信你，不管你怎么解释，他们都会觉得是狗屁话

记得， 当你争吵的时候，想清楚你要的是什么？

吵了有用吗？ 你得到什么？

"Sorry" it seems simple, but how many people willing to say it out?

How many times you scold or fight with your friend just for a little case?

How many times you regret after the conflict?

"sorry" this word, can change the world become more peaceful if everyone know how to apply it.

Sometimes, it not about who is wrong or right, we can choose to say sorry even if we did not do anything wrong..

What do you fight for? What is the purpose of your conflic? It is worth to fight after you get what you want from the conflict?

 Most of the times, we will realize we are so stupid and empty inside our heart after the conflict. Because you might lost alot through conflict such as LOVE, FAMILY LOVE, RELATIONSHIP, FRIENDSHIP

A lot of times, we might fight for our pride, or fame. But do you think the fight can claim back what you want?

A successful people will just be silent, because times will prove everything

Remember, the people who trust you will trust you no matter what happen

the people who are not trust on you, it will be useless for u to explain no matter what you say, because for the people who dont trust you, they will think your word are bullshit

Demon or Angel?

Do you people believe? or Did you ever feel that you have two personalities?

I categories it becomes two groups which are the Demon and Angel.

It is simple to understand because all of us know what Demon symbolize, what Angel symbolize.

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I define the Angel as the bright side of ourselves, the good side of yours, it mostly guide you to do something good. 

How about Demon? It is the opposite side of the bright side, the darkness side of ourselves, it mostly guide us to do something bad.

Basically, this is what I imagine. Above photo shows that, there are half Angel and Half Demon of ourselves. Do you believe that? So, if it is real, do you realize which one is the real you?

The Demon Or The Angel?

Most of the times, we wish we are the Angel, but Demon are strong which it cans attracts and control us through our desire. What to you think about Demon? When it will comes out? 

Most of the times, Demon comes out WITHOUT you notice about it.

I believe that, the Demon comes out when we have the desire. Other than that, there are one more situation where the Demon start to take over you, ourselves. When???? The moment we have no HOPE, the moment we are having stress, depress. It is easy for Demon to take over ourselves if we give up easily. There is only one thing you can defeat the Demon in your darkness side, which is YOURSELF.

So now here is the question, which one will help us to become a better person? The dark side or the bright side?

Here is my answer, “ you are who you are, Bright side or the Dark side? Who cares? If you able to control the Dark side of you, you also can make it as a weapon of yourself,"

When I talk about weapon, it doest mean that it necessary to hurt people, but  it is a weapon that make you to become better, and help You to overcome every hardships you faced.

So what is your answer? The DEMON or ANGEL?

KELVINMELODY

My Gecko 2

So, as I promised, today I will introduce all of my geckos!!!! ok, let start one by one>.<! The first one I would like to introduce the one who just give me a surprise!

See, this is what I saw this morning, this is a very wonderful egg, she had lay a egg before this, but i dunno why the egg was broken and the egg was smaller too, but this time it looks perfect( the egg).

SHTC(MALE) 
So this is the SHTC gecko, I haven give them name but will try to give them name one by one as soon as possible. He looks skinny because he dont like to eat mealworms, he only eat crickets. I am trying to pump him to become bigger size.

 

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TREMPER ALBINO 66% HET RAPTOR(MALE)

This is a fierce one, the first day I got him, he looks very scare and agressive, but he looks better and feeling comfortable after few days i fed him>.< He is fierce but i like it cause it is cool.

Snow Templer (female)

 This is a female gecko, look nice right? I hope she will produce a good next generation hehe, I love it skin color~~ cool, but dunno why she dont wnat to eat for some times dy, I guess she still haven get used to the environment....

 

mack snow bell snake eyes (female)

   This is one of my favourite, she had a snake eye, cool, she is trying to escape from it place when I am trying to take photo of others. Escape plan fail XD.

She looks skinny because she just lay eggs, will feed her crickets or dubias in order to make her fatter again, thanks to her>.< she is a good mom!

MACK SNOW(female)

 This is a female, there are two eggs inside her stomatch now, thats why she looks fat , she is going to be mama soon, waiting for her to lay her eggs.

SNOW TEMPER HET ECLIPSE JUVIA

 I have 4 juvias, in this photo it looks bigger, dont get scam by the photo hahaha, this is the biggest oe actually, his skin color is changing to the awesome color soon thats why there are some yellow dots all over its body, this is a male one.... the other three still unknown about the sex

MACK SNOW HET RAPTOR ( MALE)

 This is a male mack snow, he is father already because the previous female mack snow pregnant because of him, he is good in sex hahahahahah JKJKJK

 SUPER SNOW HET TEMPLER (MALE)
This is male super snow, he is going to become father soon too, the eggs still inside his "wife" stomatch, hope everything will be fine and produce good product hehehe.

They all are awesome right? Actually I also will confuse about their types sometimes, hehehe they all are in good condition and good quality^^ Dont be afraid of them, they are beautiful in their own ways^^ hehehehehehe

BY:KelvinMelody

Email: kelvinmelody94@gmail.com

"IFILM MAKING CAMP"

Hi, I am back^^ I stopped blogging for few days because of a campt I had joined,"IFILM MAKING CAMP" where happened in INTI NILAI UNIVERSITY( a University that i study at) It was an amazing camp.

I am a normal committee in this camp I would like to thanks all the committee members and all the facilitators and helpers who helped us to make this event succeed . They all doing well and they put all efforts even it was tiring>.<

Haha, I know some of the people do not like to read words, they will only view my blog only if there are alots of photos based, so I will show some of the photos that taken by photographers before I write more about this event, The interesting story will be written after all this photos^^

 So bassically, this all all the committees members in this "IFILM MAKING CAMP" This photo taken after all the campers went back>.<

This is the welfare team and some of the helpers and facilitators! hahaha really thanks them because they are the group of people that arranging all the foods and drinks for us>.< !! Thanks!

The person who stand in front is the head of PROGRAM MASTER!

thanks to all of the people in this photo also hehehehe

I was like" JOEVY let's take a photo" then she was like"ignore".

This guy was funny, we dont know each other before this event, but we become like brother just in two days! hahahaha thanks to this camp again, this is his own pose! "RED WINGS" anyway his name is RINGO! (If not mistaken)

Actually there are more photos in this event, but I am not the photographer so I just uploaded some of the photos where my photographers had uploaded.

So let talk about the things that I remember in this event( it will be quite long i guess)

It happened on 31may 2014, the first day of the camp. Lucky the OC(organizing chair person) called me ( but she told me she call wrong people) because without her call, I guess I was still sleeping even when the campers reached. I was tired because of previous days, I prepare and work hard for the event until very late with the members and i Did not sleep for few days too. But the funny thing is, Me and Man chun( my best friend in INTI) was discussing that we will meet at mamak stall to have our break fast 7am but at the end both of us overslept.

I can remember that I was just rushing time and run to the place where we should gather, actually this camp was quite tiring but at the end, everything went very well, it better than I expected.

In this camp, I found out that there are still alot of things that I can learn because I learnt alot in this event,

THE HIGHLIGHTS THING THAT I REMEMBER IN THIS CAMP,
1. I sleep while the speaker was giving a talk( but I sleep at outside)
2.The food is nice!
3. All the members are tired and some of them fall a sleep with me when the speaker was giving talk
4. Station games were fun
5. a chubby camper fall down and injured
6. met some cute campers that have different personalities and character
7. Getting know more about some of the members such as their experiences, attitude, character
8. sibeh tired
9. very tired
10. super tired

Lastly, I would like to thanks again all of the members!! hahaha this camp was really veryveryveryveryveryveryveryveryvery fun and happy. We all are an actors in this camp because I saw the tears, I heard the laughter , I saw people angry, yeah!  Life is just like a movie>.<

(Is a good thing to have rest, but NEVER stop learning)

by:KelvinMelody
email: kelvinmelody94@gmail.com