Did you ever become the victim because of RUMORS?How Strong A Rumors can be?

How many of us had been hurt by Rumors?
How many of us had lost their friends because of rumors?
How many of us had been attacked by rumors?
How many of us really find out the real fact before they spread the news to others?
How many of us did spread out the news wrongly to others?
How many of us did observe a thing by ears??
How many of us did observe a thing by eyes??
How many of us did observe a thing by research?






What do you think about it after you read all the questions that i had stated it out? Did you ask yourself and answered it?

The power of rumors is strong and I believe RUMORS can be one kind of weapon in our life. It looks like nothing, but actually it is dangerous weapon.

I read a short story in my facebook today, i will summarize the story, it was about cow who was complaining that he is tired and he wish he could have a rest on the next day. But after the word had been translate again again and again by different people, at the end, the sentence had become that he feel angry to his owner and he feel want to leave his owner. At the end, his owner killed the cow when he heard about the news from others.

In this story, it obviously shows that the thing that the owner heard  is NOT a true statement but he still believe in it.. It happened in our daily life too.... Did you ever hate someone because you HEARD of something bad about him/her or you hate him/her because you HEARD someone said she talks back behind you?   Did you ever trust a internet sources and you share it without doing any research??? How if it is a wrong statement which it just sounds like correct? Yes you did trust it.... I am not blaming anyone sharing information to others, but sometimes i suggested we,human to be more hardworking before we sharing any information in order to avoid unwanted conflict.

In our daily life, you might be lost your friends suddenly... Yeah at the end you will realize that your friends had left you because of some rumors. I had read some news from newspaper before which some of the students suicide because they are not able to handle all this stress.

Boys and girls, imagine please.... How if you are the victim?? Sometimes, people create rumors in order to increase their own fame or they are trying to be a HEROES in front of others. Sometimes, the person that looks bad might not the bad person because sometimes he becomes bad person because of rumors or maybe he just look likes a bad person.But, we cant just judge him by looking his appearance and listen to the rumors~ You are only QUALIFY to judge him/her after you close to him/her....
IF NOT.... STOP JUDGING OTHERS WHEN YOU DONT EVEN KNOW HIM/HER BUT YOU JUST HEARD ABOUT HIM/HER.... BE AN OBSERVER NOT BLIND 

BY KELVINMELODY 张祚强
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你是否时常寻找“答案”？

你是否时常都在寻找答案？？？

是不是每一个事情你都希望有一个答案？？？

你有没有遇过，当你发现一个事情的时候，你会一直寻找发生的原因？但是答案永远都让你找不到？
其实我相信我们都遇过这样的情形～

我承认我是一个希望知道答案的一个人，不管什么事情都好，我都希望能知道每一个细节。。
但是，经过种种的事情发生以后，我发现。。。其实有时候，不一定要有答案

你是否看过魔术表演？当你不知道那个魔术师是怎么变的时候你是否感觉很好奇。。。但是你有没有试过知道了一个魔术的变法？ 你的好奇心是否不见了？？ 很多时候，答案就是不那么好玩。。。。所以不一定每一个事情都需要答案

这样说你们一定觉得不可靠，那我问问你，你寻找答案的原因是为了什么？
通常的情况是：

1.为了证实自己预测的答案是对的
-很多时候，当我们寻问答案的时候，其实我们心里已经有了答案。。。但是我们不能100%的肯定自己的答案是对的因为我们并不知道真实的答案，所以我们才会去寻找答案。 但是有时候当我们寻找答案的时候会遇到两种情况：
a.找不到答案
-找不到答案的时候，你是否在那里自己慌张？何必呢？
b找到答案但是答案不是你所想的答案
-这个时候你会拼命的证明你的答案。。。何必呢？
c找到答案，是你的答案（比较少遇到的情况）
-安心

2.为了知道发生什么事情
-其实，我们往往都是为了知道发生什么事情。。。但是，你是否想过，当你知道了真相的时候，你是否能承担？？？你知道吗？其实每一个东西都有它的代价，你知道每一个答案，你就必须要有那个能力接受他。。。如果不能，那你最好不要一直寻找答案，因为很多东西都不是你想象的那一样。。。

我们能寻找答案，但是要确保自己能承担。。。其实，有时候当你遇到解不开的问题，为何不尝试闭上你的眼睛，深深的吸口气。。。静静的。。。感觉风的流动。。。其实，这时候，你会感觉很舒服，心情爽快很多。。。 就很像把你忍了很久的便放出来。。。

知道答案并不是坏事，但是当你不会承受没有寻找不到答案或答案的压力。。。那。。最好选择不寻找答案，，，，

kelvinmelody 旋思

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#4th request from reader "why everyone is thinking about their ex? Is it only EX girlfriend/boyfriend can give them love?"

 This is a very good question, why most of the people hard to forget their Ex girlfriend or boyfriend( mean the past girlfriend or boyfriend)?

The first thing I will like to ask when I saw this question is, " Do you Love Before?"

Yeah, nowadays, we can see alot of couples, but are they really true LOVE? Or they are just spending their extra times ?

There are several types of couple

1 Time Passing Couple

- they are just spending their extra times with each other

2.Lonely Couple

- They become couple because of lonely

3.Money couple

- He/she might in relationship because he/she is willing to spend alot money on he/she

4.Unknown couple

- They also dont know why they will in relationship, but they are in a relationship

5.Advantage couple

- They in relationship because one of them might can get some advantages from he/she such as, fame, money, friends , position and more

6.Sex couple

- They just want to fullfill their desire of sex

7. True Love Couple

- They love each other.... No other definition for this, just love for no reason, 

From the 7 types of couple above, it might be true love somedays. I will not say they are wrong or right, but I will focus on the last couple, True Love  Couple.

Yeah, when you really really love a person, you will realize that you are not able to forget he/she no matter what happened in your life even when you break up. 

" the people(your love one) might leave, but memory dont"

If you dont understand what I mean, I can sure that you never LOVE before. If you wish to know what is my definition of Love you can go to my previous post. 

In summary for definition of LOVE is, Love is permanent...

No matter where you go, where you live, anytime...anyplace.... you will remember he/she forever once you love

A lot of people that LOVE before is able to find a new relationship, but I am pretty sure inside the deep heart of them.... the Previous BF or GF is still inside them... because of? Love......

So I guess you are able to know why msot of the people cant forget their EX????

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Different Between Jealous and Motivated

Sorry for stop blogging for quite long, I guess it stop around one month? I wanted to write my blog but recently I am not able to find a correct timing to write a blog since I need some though in order to write my blog.... Ok Today, I will talk about the different between Jealous and motivated..

Why I will choose this topic?? Because most of the people will Mix up Jealous and motivated, (not sure wether I use the correct words to describe what i want to say上进心)

You might able to answer me if I ask you the different between jealous and motivated because it is obviously two different things, but why I said most of the times people will Mix up???

Based on my observation, there are some few symtoms of Jealous and Motivated

Jealous

1，You will start to feel angry for what people have such as branded items or the things you dont have
2.You will do anything in order to get what you want even it might spoil your friendship
3. You will create rumors about others
4. Never stop gossiping

Motivated

1. You will set a goal for youself, and list out the step in order to get what people have
2. You will learn from others, and try to think issit neccesarry to have that things?
3.Know what you are going to do
4.Never fight back
5. Aprreciate what you have

Did you ever have this few experienced?

1. You tried to dress up nicely when you are going out, after few alternatives, you had chosen the best one and you feel you are the best after few times you look at mirror and you will say to yourself: you look nice!And you feel confident.... but life is funny, you might saw someone that caused yourself lost your confident because you feel he or she look or dress more nicer? What will you feel when you saw this situation???
 a. If you are thinking to wear what people have, you are jealousing,
b. If you are observing what people have, you are motivated....
 cIf you are thinking he wears like a dude ,jerk,idiot, you are jealousing!!!


Actually, we should appreciate what we look alike, because EVERY PEOPLE HAVE THEIR OWN BEAUTY. If you ever feel your eye too smalll, your lips too big, or more, why dont you take it as your own Unique? If people say you are short, dont be sad, because at least people might remember you when they talk about short people! hahahah So dont jealous much but be motivated!!!


Hope you all enjoy my blog, you still can email to me if you want me to write anything^.^ Kelvinmelody94@gmail.com
next post will be about the trips i went during Chinese New year!! Stay tuned!