Did you imagine what will happen next before you make your move or decisions??
Did you ever feel worry how others look at you?
So, the tittle today is “think too much, a good thing or bad thing?"
Erm, I do not know whether it is a good thing or bad thing, it depends on how you apply on it.
But there are also pros and cons by think too much
Advantages
a. better decision
- when you think, we will try to imagine several situation and we will choose the best situation before we made the final decision, it helps us to make better decision cause it is a final choice through alot of expectation or imagination.
B-reduce unwanted conflicts
- it will reduce conflicts because we will not choose to do something if we think before we do, so it helps us to reduce the chances of having conflict
Disadvantages
a. lost confident
- because when we think too much, worry too much, we will easy lose our confident on certain task such as, relationship, friendship and more.
b. never live peaceful
-when we chose to worry this and that, our life wil never peaceful because we will busy thinking what will happen next, what others think of ourself, or more.
There are still alot of pros and cons for think too much.... but let's get back to the tittle, is it a good thing or a bad thing?
For me, there are no good or bad, it depends on how you apply this skill in your life, if you choose to think tooo much for everything single thing, i guess it is a bad thing because as above mentioned,your life will ful of stress. We need to learn to be CALM, try your best to stop thinking unnecessary thing. Sometimes, you expect or though that others will think so and so, but at the end you will realize that actually you are the only one in the whole "movie", You will feel yourself are the only person that act like a dumb in that movie. But human is a complicated creatures, some of the people still willing to choose to think a lot even they know they are an idiot, I dont know why, maybe they born to be like this? or maybe they are target for something?
what yours?
By: KelvinMelody
